Adam & Jess

We're finally getting married!

Sunday 24th July 2022

Welcome to our wedding website

'The sun come up,  it was blue and gold, 
Ever since I put your picture in a frame'  

'Picture In A Frame' by Tom Waits


Hi there! After 2 postponed dates, and a 2 year wait - we're finally getting married! Can you believe it? We can't. 

Thank YOU for waiting  with us. And we're very excited you're here. 

On this site you'll find everything you need to RSVP, send dietary requirements, find out about accommodation, travel, timings on the day, and more. 

Take a look around and contact us at any time if you need to.  We can't wait to celebrate with you all. 

Adam and Jess x 

Married for

3

years

2

months

4

days

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

When

24th July 2022, 14:00 - 00:00

Where

Villiers Barn, Grove Farm, Tan Lane, Thorpe-le-Soken , Essex , CO16 9PT, United Kingdom

'We were standing,
Standing by peaceful waters' 

'Lake Marie' by John Prine



Back in 2020, we looked and looked for our wedding venue; we'd hoped to find a countryside barn with gorgeous views, in a romantic setting by a lake - and we did! 

We love Villiers Barn.  It's a fully restored grade II listed barn in rural Essex (sorry West of London people...) and we are holding both the ceremony and the party there.


Villiers Barn is named after Barbara Villiers, Duchess of Cleveland - the most notorious of the many mistresses of Charles II - who lived on the estate in the 16th century. Apparently she got around. If Thorpe-le-Soken is good enough for her, it's good enough for us. 


We love that the barn feels in the middle of nowhere whilst only 1 hour 20 on the train from London.  Also, everything is happening in one place.  So once you arrive, please kick back, and simply enjoy. 

The ceremony will start at 2pm. Please arrive at 1.30pm. We go till midnight!

Oh and the dress code is 'Barn Wedding Chic' - interpret as you will.

Want to see more of the venue? www.villiersbarn.co.uk

For more info, take a look at our FAQs. We hope you have a brilliant day! 

Adam
About Adam
 Adam. Actor & teacher.  A thinker. Crystal Palace FC, dog videos, steak and a good view. 3 dates in 1 month. Bloody lucky.  
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Jess
About Jess
 Jess. Actress & coach. A talker. Musical Theatre, psychology podcasts, steak and a good view. 50 dates in 18 months. Persistent.  
About Adam and Jess
'Please forgive me
If I act a little strange
For I know not what I do
Feels like lightning
Running through my veins
Every time I look at you'

'Please Forgive me' by David Gray

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Travel & Transport

There is a car park at the venue - cars need to be collected by 10am the next day.
The nearest station is Thorpe-Le-Soken which takes 1h 22mins from London Liverpool Street. The station is 1.5 miles from Villiers Barn which is a 4 minute taxi ride or a 30 minute walk along beautiful rapeseed fields. Please note that half the walk does not have pavements.
Taxis should be pre-booked in advance. 

Walton & Frinton Taxis - 

(01255) - 675910 
(01255) - 850888 
(01255) - 676887 
(01255) - 850333 

Kirby Kabs - 01255-833441 
Westerns Taxis - 01255-220050 
Swan Taxis - 01255-222280 
OctaCars Taxi Colchester - 07376 143843 


Our gift list

Your presence at our nuptials is gift enough, but just in case you would like to gift us something, we would be grateful for a contribution to our Italian honeymoon or never-ending house renovation! Thank you so much. 

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FAQs

Got questions? Maybe we can answer them below...

Why are you getting married on a Sunday? 

Covid made 2022 dates very tricky to get - we hope you can make a long weekend of it and don't mind taking the Monday off work! 

What time do I need to be there again?

1.30pm for a 2pm start. 

Anything happening on the Saturday night? 

We're having dinner with family but if you'd like to, we recommend The Bell Inn https://www.bellinnbistro.com/about-us/ in Thorpe-Le-Soken for dinner and drinks. Tables get booked pretty quickly so call 01255 861199 asap and hopefully we can fill the restaurant up with our guests. Why not wear a flower in your hair to show you're happy to mingle with other wedding goers? We're sure we'll pop our head in at some point!

Alright, alright! I've taken the Monday off work! Where can I get a Bloody Mary and some fried eggs?

We've informed The Bell Inn (see above) there will be hangovers. They've bought in extra staff and tomato juice. We've booked some tables for family at 12pm. We'd love to see you there as well but please call The Bell Inn on 01255861199 to book your table alongside us in the restaurant. 

Can we bring our kids?

Only if they are named on the invite. We love your kids (we do!) but there's just not the space. We're hoping you'll enjoy some quality mummy and daddy time on the romantic Essex Sunshine Coast. 

Can I bring a date?

Please check your invite for +1. We're already filling the venue to capacity so numbers are tight!

Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

Oh yes. 

Where should I park?

There is a car park at Villiers Barn. Cars need to be picked up by 10am the next day. If you can't be bothered with any driving book yourself a taxi asap using the numbers in our 'taxi' section, or we recommend staying in one of the hotels served by our wedding coach service. Please see the  'Hotel Finder' section on the dashboard when you log in for more info. 

Uber?

Ha. No.

Is it an inside wedding or an outdoors wedding?

We're hoping and praying for good weather so we can spend as much time outdoors as possible. If the weather is poor the whole shebang will be moved inside. The BBQ will be cooked outside but served indoors.

What kind of shoes should I wear?

Wear whatever you like - just bear in mind there's a lot of grass, a lot of gravel and we will applaud you if you bring more comfortable shoes for dancing. 

What else should I wear?

Interpret 'Summer Barn Wedding Chic' as you will. If we can limit the number of twirly moustaches and suspenders on the men that would be ace.

Can we take pictures?

Please do, except if the registrar tells you that you can't. Please whatsapp them to us immediately. 

Whom shall I call with questions?

If you want a quick response it's probably best to email or whatsapp Jess. Adam is spending every waking hour renovating our first home so will answer any queries directed at him with an eye roll and a long sigh. 




Contact Us

If you have any questions about the arrangements for our wedding or want to let us know something specific please send us a message.